66yo Boss
Ok, check this out. The lady behind us using the pull up bars(shes 66 btw) told us told us she had not worked out in a while but here she is cranking out knee lifts like a BOSS.π
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Seriously though she probably DOES stay active. Later we talked with her and she told us we are an inspo to her but really SHE is the REAL GOALS here. πͺππͺππͺπ I mean COME ONNNNNNNN.....just check her out!!!! She doesn't use her age as an excuse for lack of motivation. She showed up to a gym, to workout alone, while on vacay. Seriously, she is my goals!!!!!!!
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I work out and eat healthy so I CAN rock those knee lifts just like this lady! Btw, to all those mommy and grammys out there, keep rocking it. I'm SOOOO inspired by YOU!!!!!!!! βββ
Your Dreams
You either work for someone to help build THEIR DREAMS... or you work to BUILD YOUR OWN DREAMS. πΈπ΄πΈ
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A few years ago I was headed down that first career path. But I finally decided to change my of thinking. But I ALMOST said NO to my dreams....Ya see, I used to think "online jobs" were nothing but pyramid schemes, sales and annoying people. π€ Hmmmm yea, I was 100% wrong. Almost 4 years later I'm hosting a retreat for some Coaches on our team and I could have never been able to do this is it wasn't for online Coaching. I've meet my closest friends through this business and I've helped hundreds of people reach goals with REAL NUTRITION and INCREDIBLE WORKOUTS. πͺπ I love my job and always will. I can't imagine my life any other way and I'm so grateful I stopped letting my doubts and misconceptions get in the way.
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If you are ready to work towards YOUR DREAMS then you know I'm here. I'm already planning next year's retreat! You should totes be here. Just sayin'. ππ΄π
No One Is That Happy
Someone said to me recently they love following me because I always seem happy. And yes, I would say I'm a pretty happy person. Honestly though, when I think about how I appear to others I'm always afraid that they might think...."shes fake...no-ones THAT happy!" π
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Seriously though, I do try to show my highs and lows as often as I can. Life is not perfect all the time (it's not meant to be) but I truly believe we ALL can become happier, more grateful people when we just remember to do the simple things. Like ...be nice. ππ...
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If I could sum up HOW to become happier I would do it in my "oh snap, Sarah's got a mean- REAL TALK side"...kinda voice...
So ya'll ready for this?!?!!
I'm only sharing because I talk to A LOT of people and I see what they post on social media too. π¨π¨π¨ And if you are offended then yea.... This message is probably for you π So here we go...
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#1 stop treating the people you "love" Like crap. What you say behind thier back defines who YOU ARE. Not them.
#2 If you play the blame or excuse game ALL your life you will always be a victim to your OWN negativity. So stahhhp. You ain't going anywhere until you own your own failure. Learn from it, get better and never stop.
#3 ALWAYS show respect for others. Do you take time to get to know everyones name or show courtesy and thankfulness to EVERYONE!?!?! - whether they are a CEO, janitor, teacher, police officer, chef, waitress....etc.!!?!?
#4 Stop WISHING. Start DOING. be true to your word if you say you are going to do something....then DO IT! You are grown. You don't need to be spoon fed anymore.
#5 Be thankful. There is someone less fortunate wishing they had your life. Do your part in this world and leave it better than when YOU entered it.
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So there is it is... happy rant done πππHave a blessed and happy day friends. Life is too short to not live it happy. XOXO
Closest Five
You are the average of the 5 people you spend most of your time with. So is that a good thing!?!?! To some, yes π.....and for others ....it sucks!!!! So I encourage you - who are your closest 5!? π
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π€Did I treat and Love this person right today and in the past?
π€In what ways today did I uplift or compliment them?
π€Did I show him or her support today?? HOW?
π€Does this person know I love them?
π€In what ways do I show them that I love them??
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I answer yes to each one when it comes to Eddie and I. We help build each others dreams and support each others passions and goals. This relationship isn't 50-50...its 100-100. I'm not saying we are perfect or we never get upset with each other time to time but what I am saying is that it's SOOOOO important to ALWAYS communicate and ALWAYS take the time to be a true SUPPORTER and true FAN of your people. If they don't know you support them then you most likely feel unsupported as well. I recommend taking extra time to show that love to your peeps. Your life will be so much more fulfilled and you they will mirror how you want to be treated also. It's never too late to change our thinking and actions. πππ
I Was Fake
Reality πI was FAKE & here's why...
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I also have rolls when I sit. Shocker. But the "NOW" ME, don't give a care πππ....But I wasn't always happy with myself and If I was to go back and start my fitness career over I WISH I would have started with getting my eating at home, and my mindset towards loving myself RIGHT!!! ππ₯πππ₯πππ Hear me out....because 10 years ago I did the personal trainer gym thing but I wish I would had listened to my body and not over trained so hard. I wish I would have not relied so much on a scale that I starved myself till I was at a certain bmi. That's not healthy and I knew that.
I was teaching up to 20 classes a week....and eating freakin' fruit loops almost every day bc I worked out "enough" so to me I could eat anything...why not, RIGHT!?!?...UMMM. WRONG. ππππ
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What changed for me was truly loving myself enough to TAKE CARE OF ME. And I NEEDED to LEARN how to do it. I had been "faking" my health for too long. ....
So I joined a 21 day Virtual Fit Club in 2014 and it's changed my life FOREVER. I've learned so much about what my body truly needed to heal and become healthier and it's been a very humbling experience. Becoming an Online Coach has forever changed my life and I am going to be doing this forever. Why? Because I'm held MORE accountable. My clients are held MORE accountable. And lastly what we do is not JUST nutrition or a Quick Fix, It's eating REAL food, working out (in a gym or at home....or outside!) With a BIG focus on mindset and community. We are a group of people who are instilling a belief in ourselves of love. We don't focus on our health because we hate ourselves. It's because we love ourselves and we want to lead a LONG HEALTHY life we are proud of. β
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Listen, if YOU are on the fence about FINALLY committing to health, then what is holding you back!?!?!! Seriously, my Virtal Fit Club, the people in it and the easy to follow meal plans and workouts FREAKING WORK!!!! & If you believe in our mission too then send me a message. I'm here to help. β€β€β€
Brain Break
Needed a brain break from studying to update my drivers licence
.....(So nervous btw)......and since food makes everything better π I decided to make this. I'm outta lettuce but that can't stop me! I'm waaaaay digging this too...
π1/2 Avocado
π5 cherry tomatoes
πcelery stalk
π homemade vinaigrette dressing
πblue cheese crumbles
.....oh em word. So good! Btw, what's your fav cheese topping to ADD to your salad?
March Compound Countdown Challenge
πFπRπEπEπ COMPOUND COUNTDOWN CHALLENGE IN MARCH....
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REAL TALK...not EVERYONE WANTS this. I get it. Sign up or don't. But ya know what!??? I want to help those that WANT this for themselves. I can only help you so far but you might think....oh..I NEED this, but do I WANT this?! Well that's up to you.π This is only an extra 10-20min daily workout and after day 10 you might not WANT this challenge anymore. I see it happen ALL.THE.TIME. So even BEFORE you begin I want YOU TO WRITE YOUR GOALS DOWN! Feel free to send them to me and let me know WHY You NEED & WANT & WILL commit to this. BC I'm here to help YOU.
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Really ask yourself WHY would I do this and if these reasons align with your goals then let's DO THIS!!!!!!
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πͺBecause I give you Workouts ((M-F Everyweek in March)) & That makes you fit....which helps you become less stressed....which makes you realize you CAN & WILL accomplish more.
πͺBecause I'm giving away some fitness swag to someone who SHOWS UP!
πͺBecause you can join my community of go-getters that are throwing excuses out the window...BECAUSE THIS IS OUR YEAR to become healthier, happier and more driven in life.
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Still with me!? Then you might be one of THOSE go-getters. Go RIGHT HERE to sign up for the daily workout. We start MARCH 5TH!!!!!!!!!!
Healthy and No Work
Ya ever look at healthy food pics and think..."I should eat that. But I don't want to put in the work."??
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Well you aren't alone. I STILL think that. I would buy veggies and think THIS TIME WILL BE DIFFERENT!!!!! And alas it's STILL A struggle. But I will tell ya one thing that's helped me. Talking to myself as if I was a Child and my more mature healthier smarter and better looking self was giving me words of advice. Because lets face it...... I'm a rebel and always will be. I don't like people telling me what to do(that's why I work for myself) but FOR SOME REASON when I talk to myself this way then I listen. Does that make sense? Am I cray!? ......Dont answer that. πππ
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Anyway my convo usually goes something like this...
"Sarah, you are a freaking Adult!!!! You CAN eat better. But WILL YOU!? Will you get up, shop for what you ALREADY KNOW you should eat or will you just sit there scrolling pics of recipes you will never try!? π€¦π€¦π€¦
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So I listen. And I run to the grocery stores.... then the next battle starts...
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"SARAH!!!!! Remember you bought those veggies!??! And now they are starting to brown because you are TOO LAZY to cut them up!? Like for realz. What a freaking waste. You are blessed beyond measure to be able to go to a store, to afford to buy that food...then you are gonna let it go to waste!? What the freak!?!?! π€·π€·π€·
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After that I do get up, go the kitchen & take 5 min to make a salad and remember that my LAZY brain is always trying to sabatoge me. I feel so guilty admitting all of this but maybe if you are the same then try it. And ALSO write it down. Then read it aloud. It's like an "I love you enough to put you in your place" kinda love note to yourself π I hope it helps you too!!!!!
Attitude Determines Success
YOUR attitude determines YOUR success. And if you talk negatively to yourself NOW, then you will be in a battle with yourself for years. Trust me, I KNOW.
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I have NOT always been fit on both the inside and the outside. I starved myself for years, and If I weighed more than my goal I wouldn't eat. I finally threw my scale out 7 years ago and accepted and loved my body exactly where I was already at.
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My attitude needed to be adjusted in order to succeed. I had to LOVE who I was and start treating my body RIGHT. I now understand that eating healthy and exercising is not PUNUSHMENT. I do this NOT because I HATE my body. I do it because I LOVE MYSELF. I hope you choose to love who you are RIGHT NOW & EVERYDAYπππππ
Faith, Not Fear
I've always loved this saying because it reminds me of ALL the people, places and things I've experienced in my life and it was ONLY because I chose to live my life in FAITH and not FEAR.
I didn't always choose Faith though. I was SO fearful as a child. I avoided going ANYWHERE by myself because of this fear. And while some 'warnings' were given to me to protect me it actually started to make me feel like a victim in a negative dark world. But as I grew up I, began to realize that I was so fearful because I convinced myself of the negative outcomes that would happen.
Too many times I judged others because what I believed to be truth was actually my own preconceived false truths. I told myself stories of how I would fail. I told myself lies about how others would judge me. I was insecure, blinded and built my own prison from this negativity.
This saying 'Faith Over Fear' kept reminding to ask myself- "Am I LIVING with Faith over Fear? Does my life mirror that belief?"
I wanted a happier, loving & more fulfilled life. If I wanted to live this fulfilled life I had to search it out - I knew it would not just come to me. And if I DIDN'T take action then I knew I would miss SO MANY wonderful experiences and relationships and adventures by living in fear.
Slowly but surely I re-wrote my story and knew that my life would look very different in 5, 10 - 50 years when I continued to choose FAITH over my FEARS. I started talking to myself more positively. I avoided drama and gossip. I searched out people who actively lived this FAITH over FEAR life and I learned from them.
I also have a few reminders that have helped me along the way and I hope they encourage you today, tomorrow and the next 50 years to have a FAITH driven life rather than a life full of fear.
πGod created ALL people & they are ALL meant to be loved- not feared and hated for who they are or what they believe.
πYou have to make YOUR OWN choices in life. Do not be quick to judge. Do not base your choices and actions on what others do TO YOU. When you are faced with conflict always choose love.
πGod created you to find your passion and live and love life. It will take you many tries and failures before you 'figure it out' but know that these 'failures' lead you to success. Rome...and Beyonce weren't built in a day. π
πWhen you judge others it's only because you are insecure- in what ways can you improve YOURSELF so you aren't always living in comparison?
πWhen making a big decision, ask yourself- 'Will thinking like this or making this decision place me outside of my comfort zone so I can have a chance to learn and grow?'
πWhen this life comes to an end, will you have lived it fully or not? Everyday decisions will determine this outcome. SO MAKE EVERY DAY COUNT!!!!