What Truly Matters

Todays #mindfulmoment

It was January 2018, I was on my 1st Dance Fitness Cruise, and I paid for the internet package. Although it didn't work one day, and I missed my 4 year streak of posting on Facebook...I almost had a panic attack. At that moment, I realized how bad my social media addiction had gotten.

You guys,there's no prize or million dollar check if you go 10 years without missing a day posting on social. Even though people will sell you courses claiming that to grow a business online, you MUST do this.

At what cost though? Will it take 3 hours a day mindlessly scrolling social media and judging yourself because you are in constant comparison to how someone else is portraying the life they WANT you to see?

I've known and met a lot of "successful influencers" and I've seen what their life really is truly like. I've seen them choose work over family life time and time again. And if that's the cost, I DONT want it.

This is a hard truth that I have had to learn over and over again over this past decade.

I used to care what YOU thought of me. I used to try to be someone on social media that was obsessed with "the numbers"...

Until I reminded myself of what TRULY MATTERS.

My family.

I'm not saying that all the people on social who are CRUSHING IT don't have a beautifulmarriage or hapoy family life, but the next time you open up a social media app, right before it, you decide to go kiss your guy or gal FIRST.

What kind of relationship do you want to build?....

One that looks good to strangers, or one that IS GOOD to the REAL people you said you loved???

Now go get off this app, and give someone an I LOVE YOU. 🫶🏽 they deserve your undivided attention.ALWAYS.

#mindsetmatters

#bereal #comparisonisthethiefofjoy