Effortless Change?

How is it that some people can change thier life and it seems effortless? I know for me, I couldn't compete with that...so why even try!?!?

I was fine with my C average in school and when I dropped out of college I really didn't think of any type of future plans..."NOT DRIVEN" would be a pretty good adjective to define who I was.

For a decade I rrally didn't know WHO I wanted to become but I didn't take REAL ACTION because I needed to "unlearn" who I THOUGHT I was so that I could allow myself permission to grow into who I OUGHT TO BE.

I thought..."Maybe it's time to stop defending what I DON'T like about myself & start living by who I WANT to be...bc THAT person is in alignment with how I want to live out my days.

These changes didn't come easy, but I knew if I don't change, then nothing changes.

Maybe you are at that same point and frustrated with where you are at. Hear me out because this might help you too...

Instead of saying.... " I CAN'T get up early to do....X,Y,Z. Say to yourself instead...

"Because I get up early to accomplish.."task" ...I am becoming the type of person who I am proud of.

"Because I am pursuing this career, I am learning new things everyday and I am grateful for where this will lead me."

"Because I am taking care of myself, I am not only affecting my health but also inspiring those that I love around me."

Visualize this life. How does it look AND feel? Where will it lead you someday?

Is it worth taking a chance on the NEW YOU?

I'd say it is. Our past does NOT matter, but what DOES matter is how you are living TODAY & how you are looking AHEAD.

If you spend all your time looking behind you then you hit more walls and more problems. You let your past show you the way, but change doesn't exist there. It us HERE & NOW.

Instead look for the hope and belief that you are ready for the life you want.

When you hear the fear and self limiting beliefs speak up in your life tell it... "thank you for trying to protect me, but it's time learn & grow. It's time for ME to change & I welcome these new changes."

& friend, If you need help with a game plan & ACTION, you know where to find me.