N.O.Y.B.

Heyyyyy, just your friendly reminder that the opinions that others have about you is none of YOUR business. The moment I stopped caring what other people thought the more quickly I realized I was giving away ALL of my power over to being liked and approved of. Screw that! ❌

Those that judge me will judge me regardless of what I do or don't do. This was a hard truth for me to accept because YES, the MORE you put yourself out there the MORE you will be judged....

And when GOOD things happened to me I started to see certain people around me change.......some people loved and supported me but some did NOT. I was blocked on social media by more than a few "friends" and some girls just stopped inviting me to their nights out....and I've come to find that they didn't like me not because of anything I did or didn't do but because they resented me. And I know this because I used to have that mindset too.

My resentment & jealousy of others was just a way for me to hide in the lies that I was a victim. And when you are victim you can only blame others and not take responsibility for a better life. Well that JUST PLAIN SUCKS.😨

So if you are jelly of someone busting their butt for a healthier,wealthier and happier then HUSH THAT INNER MEANIE & go congratulate them!!!! And if you want that kinda life. ASK.THEM.HOW. For reals. There is so so much personal development, online training, google, YouTube.....so many people are offering up HOW.👌🏼 Put your excuses aside and do something good for YOU. #spreadlovenothate #positivethinking #bethechangeyouwanttosee