Feel Like Sunshine

Something I tried to do in my 20's was be around happy people, so to me that meant filling THEIR cups before I filled my own, and guess what!? That STILL wasn't enough for some of them. Because sadly givers attract takers. They might seem nice....until they're not. And maybe you are or have been in the same boat. 🤷🏽‍♀️
...You are depleted of caring, so you give in.
... You start to judge others. 
...You think niceness is just fake and people ONLY want something from you.

....Sadly YES I was jaded too. Trust me. What I had to do was ✋🏼STOP✋🏼 I had to STOP fueling others negative behavior with my own. If I TRULY wanted a better life I had to do something different right!?!?! Well, change starts from within. So I had to re-evaluate my OWN actions & stop criticizing myself and others..& realize that YES, even if I say something negative about myself and others(in my thoughts) IT'S JUST AS WRONG!!!!!!! I also had to stop being nice with my people pleasing attitude just to be liked.🤦🏽‍♀️

Listen I'm not saying STOP BEING NICE, instead what I AM saying is Just ✋🏼✋🏼✋🏼stop, write down & reevaluate your "5 closest friends" and if they are these "takers" then politely start to ✌🏼 out from negative behaviors like gossip, hate and comparison. All those things only breed MORE negativity and take away GOOD energy that could have been spent around positive uplifting people that ACTUALLY want more for their loves!

And the good news is YES, THOSE POSITIVE PEEPS ARE OUT THERE!!!!!!! Don't have a tribe of encouragers who ACTUALLY got your back!!?!!??! Well, I got some great news...
I found MOST of my tribe on social media(love you guys btw) and in all likelihood you are reading this on social....sooooooo 💁🏽‍♀️ 
All that to say, I'm here if you need that cup filled back up.... whether it be..
💕A.Mindset shift
💕A Healthy Body Makeover
💕Or building a Fit-Influencer business doing this TOGETHER. 
THIS IS & ALWAYS WILL BE MY PURPOSE 👉🏽Helping people feel a part of a tribe & to help them achieve their health, happiness and financial goals. If you need help with any, I'm here babe😘
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