This is About People

Do you ever get angry when someome treats a person a certain way because of their title, or rank or achievements, or income earnings.... or lack there of!?!?

Do you ever see yourself as LESS than because of what box you DONT fit into?!?!

That's how I felt at times, even with being a fitness instructor & Online Coach.

I would get asked things like...

What's your rank? How big are your classes??! Who's YOUR team? Do you have a BIG team!?!?

The reason I hated these questions was because it made you feel SMALL if you weren't AT THE TOP.

And even when I achieved some of those goals I set out for it still made me feel like I wasn't "enough."

I didn't like it. So I decided to work on changing my mindset bc I CAN take on that responsibility.

I also realized maybe I wasn't the only one that felt this way. So hear me out, bc maybe you can relate.

What helped me is to set out to see, WHO are the people that are kind...not just to "thier team" or "thier classes" but to EVERYONE?

Who would go out of their way to make that ONE person feel special?

I noticed that with this trip.

& no, this isn't about a popularity contest people.

This is about growth and being in a room of AMAZING people that you can't tell WHO the leader is bc we ALL step up and make EVERYONE FEEL LIKE THEY BELONG. That's REAL leadership.

And thats what this is about to me. I don't care about what you have achieved but I DO CARE about how you treat A PERSON.

And these women also GET THAT.

When I started believing that & ACTING on it, I started attracting that.

I've met some INCREDIBLE women along this journey & and I'm so grateful that THIS is what I was searching for.

These women matter to me...and NOT because I personally signed them up...(bc I didn't) they matter TO ME because they have a LIFE that matters.

They have value to give this world and I want to hear thier story & encourage them fo share that!!!!

I always wanted to hang out with women that were ALL leaders & would step in to LEAD rather than follow.

They would ask questions. They would have an open mind & be willing to learn. And MOST IMPORTANTLY They would make EVERYONE feel welcome.

A group of women that collaborate, that ALL have a voice and use it....for positivity.

A group of women who, when people meet, make them feel SO WELCOME that it doesn't matter WHO they signed up with or doesn't matter what TEAM they are on.

And that's who WE ARE.

We are a group of women who WELCOME everyone. We treat others the way we want to be treated.

We are ONE TEAM. ONE FAMILY. ONE TRIBE. ONE COMMUNITY.

And thats who WE ARE.

I saw new friendships form this trip and it was really beautiful. It made me realize that again. This not about a company, a rank or a goal.

This is about PEOPLE.

Thank you for showing me this reminder ladies. You mean so much to me & I'm so grateful we get to be in this TOGETHER.