The Minute You Decide
The minute you make the decision to start living the life you want rather than the life others want for you is the moment you are on the RIGHT path.
If I would have told 29 year old Sarah that this would be her life in 10 years I would said .."yea....that'd be nice". I know because I said that!!!! Sarcastically even!!!
I was so scared to step outside the norm so I watched others have success and thought...yea that'd be nice" & continued to come up with reasons why I COULDN'T do what they did.
All I could hear was my own doubts and self limiting beliefs and it came out in the form of panic attacks, nail biting, binge eating and jealousy.
So what changed in me? Well, a bit of both inspiration for a better life and desperation to not repeat the past.
So I tried something new. I tried something that others scoffed at and said would NEVER work.
I realized I was living by the direction of people that weren't dreamers and do-ers.
They were complainers and talked negatively about others. They CHOSE to live in chaos and not seek help & opportunity and decided to give up before really trying.
That was who I was surrounded by, because that's who I was.
Until I said, MAYBE there's a better way....
Instead of judging, what if I learned?
Instead of quitting, what if I tried?
Instead of complaining, what if I asked for help?
Sometimes you have to give yourself compassion for who you are in hard moments so that you can take a few breaths and ask yourself those questions.
I share all this to not say I have it all figured out, but to offer help in any of these areas.
I have found many circles of supportive friends who ARE dreamers and doers who DO cheer each other on and are also willing to ask for help when needed.
You never have to feel stuck because I want you to know I am here to help.
My February group is called "I AM ENOUGH". Lean in and learn WITH me. Life is meant to be LOVED. Not just lived.
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