Wants v. Needs
Happy August friends!!!!! Maybe you are also starting a new program also or planning out your month but instead of writing out "WANTS" I want you to think about the "NEEDS" of your life.
Here's why....
Don't think about you WANT in life...you won't show up for that "want" long enough to see any REAL results.....but you will show up for a "NEED".
Think about it...you might say you WANT....
I want those abs or booty gains
I want a better paying job
I want more freedom with my time
I want more confidence
But we need to stop thinking "WANTS" and more so start thinking "NEEDS".
I NEED to healthier so that I can have the energy to take care of myself and those that I love....for a LONG time.
I NEED to push my doubts aside and not "want" for a better job, but instead PURSUE IT through REAL action because I NEED to be able to provide more for my family because struggles suck and staying stuck is not an option ANYMORE.
I NEED to work towards more time freedom. I NEED this because time is going way too fast & I want the rest of my life, from here on out, to be the BEST of my life filled with MORE time spent with those I love.
I NEED to have more confidence because if I continue down this path of people pleasing and never feeling worthy & too scared to try something new I know I will end up right where I am...miserable and bitter and regretful and hopeless.
When you push the WANTS aside and look at the NEED for change you get to to the root cause of WHY you NEED this change to occur. Dig deeper friend...you NEED to do this to find what'’s motivating you for REAL and LONG LASTING change.
Will you get uncomfortable along the way? You better believe it!!!
Will you lose some "friends " that probably never had your back to begin with? Ummm, I hope so....And so should you!
A Better life is on the other side of ACTION...now do you "NEED" it or just "kinda want" it right now?!?
Your needs matter, because YES, YOU MATTER. Don't forget that.