The sooner you realize your worth, the sooner others might too...and even if they don't, it's gonna be ahhhh- iiighhtt.
I recently did a thing that I was putting off...for awhile. I sooo wanted approval, acceptance, recognition and love and when I finally realized I needed to MOVE FORWARD and STOP WAITING for this to happen I had a HUGE weight lifted off of my shoulders. I had no idea of the prison I had built because I placed SO MUCH VALUE on what someone thought of me.
Guys, I don't have it all figured out but what I have found is I FINALLY feel worthy of close friendships & an amazing life because I am DONE trying to win approval!
I will never be everyone's cuppa tea. And that’s OHHH KAYYYYY. Like really ok. I mean really, How selfish am I for trying to be EVERYONE'S Friend!?!? Like really, when I think about it...is that the most selfish thing!?! 💁🏽♀️ like ever!!?!?! YEP. Wanting approval....and from EVERYONE!?!? C'mon Sarah. Now there's some deep rooted issues that I needed to RELEEEAAAASE!!!!✌🏼
I know I'm not the only one that thinks this way so here's what's helped me that might help you too...
#1 Stop putting others on a pedestal because you may NEVER feel a part of their world.
#2 VALUE your TRUE friends. They are the ones that VALUE you too. Love them hard and tell them how much you love and appreciate them. Often.
#3 Dive into personal development and find time to fill YOUR CUP. Because no -one likes ya when your judgey 🤣👌🏼
#4 Forgive yourself and MOVE ON. We ALL have times we wish things coulda been different. Leave the past in the past, otherwise moving forward never comes.
Thanks for hearing me out. Love and be loved today and always friends. 💕💕💕